Lovers love and fighters fight. Right? How could there possibly be a correlation between lovers and fighters, forgiving the occasional lover's spat?
It may seem strange but there is a distinct correlation between being a lover and being a fighter. In fact, it may even seem paradoxical, but when understood the paradox is perfectly clear.
Take a look at these quotes from Sun Tzu, the ancient Chinese warlord and author of The Art of War (Samuel B. Griffith, Oxford University Press, London)
When you are ignorant of the enemy but know yourself, your chances of winning or losing are equal.
If ignorant both of your enemy and of yourself, you are certain in every battle to be in peril.
As a warlord and master general, Sun Tzu's statement is absolutely correct. To be victorious, which is the goal of war, one must know himself and his adversary. Ignorance of only one, the other or both, will be perilous, to say the least.
Knowing the self and the other. This is the key to all relationships, whether those relationships are martial or marital. Moving from the martial battlefield, isn't it also true that in the lover's domain it is just as important to know oneself and one's spouse, lover, partner?
Yet, how often are partners only interested in themselves in a relationship? It's more common than one may think. In fact, throughout nearly forty years of studying people and their relationships and marriages, The King's Numerology has noticed that most people are only interested in themselves and have no idea what makes their partner tick or click. It is strange, but not uncommon.
The reality is, of course, that if a marriage/partnership is to succeed and thrive well, we must not only know ourselves and attend to our needs, wants and desires, but it is just as important, even perhaps more so, to know the needs, wants and desires of our partner. If both partners are fully aware of each other's needs and attend to them lovingly, then the prospects of a successful union are greatly enhanced. But if our perspective is too self-centered, the possibilities of a successful relationship are highly compromised. Sun Tzu would, no doubt, confirm this marital strategy. Then can we say, "So in love as in war?" As far as knowing the other - lover or combatant, absolutely "yes." To be successful in any relationship we must know both sides of the equation, not just one.
Thus, we can alter Sun Tzu's statement's above to reflect a lover's perspective.
When you are ignorant of your partner but know only yourself, your relationship will be uncertain.
If ignorant both of your partner and of yourself, your relationship will definitely to be in peril.
This is why The King's Book of Numerology, Volume 6 - Love Relationships (KBN6) was created. It reveals the secrets of great relationships, proven by supporting data. It may seem unorthodox, but it is anchored in the truth of, arguably, the greatest and most efficient communication system there is, numbers. Yes, numbers. What is there in this universe that cannot be reduced to numbers? Music, sound, light, computers, colors, natural elements - all can be reduced to numbers, and it is no different for relationships.
KBN6 is basically a relationship compatibility guide which teaches you how to translate each person's full birth name and birth date into numbers and then compare those numbers with the numbers of one's intended or current spouse, partner, family member, etc., revealing the formulas, keys and energetic connections between the two parties which are essential to generate wonderful, fulfilling, loving, successful relationships, marriages and partnerships.
This is an easy-to-learn process. If you can add 1 + 1, you can learn the secrets KBN6 has to offer. And you should. What do you have to lose? It is highly recommended, if not a MUST, for people who are considering getting engaged to make use of this revolutionary new methodology BEFORE they make any formal commitments. It's far better to be knowledgeably safe than tearfully sorry. The revolutionary new data in KBN6 will confirm whether your intended future spouse or partner is right for both of you, not just one or the other.
And if you're already in a marriage or relationship, the information shared in KBN6 will certainly help you understand what makes your partner tick and click. What is their most primal need? What is your most primal need? Can you or your partner articulate this? KBN6 will show you exactly what each other needs, and much, much more. Furthermore, this process can be used for family members or anyone for that matter. Frankly, the information in KBN6 is not just revolutionary, it is precious and priceless, and you can prove it for yourself.
If you are a marriage and/or family psychologist, therapist, counselor, teacher or anyone in a capacity to help others in relationship matters of any kind, The King's Book of Numerology, Volume 6 - Love Relationships will be a treasure to your work, for it will give you insights you've never had before and help others as they have never been helped before.
So . . . the Lover-Fighter paradox is quite explicable. As fighters must know themselves and their opponents to be successful in battle, so lovers must know themselves and their partners to be successful in relationship. Knowledge is king and action is its servant.
For those interested in a Relationship Compatibility Analysis, contact Richard Andrew King through his website RichardKing.net or via email: Rich @ RichardKing.net. KBN6 can be purchased at Amazon by clicking on one of the links in this article, or by going to RichardKing.net/books.
For numerology knowledge, study The King's Book of Numerology series; Your Love Numbers, Destinies of the Rich and Famous, Blueprint of a Princess - Diana Frances Spencer, Queen of Hearts, The Age of the Female - A Thousand Years of Yin, and Parenting Wisdom for the 21st Century - Raising Your Children By Their Numbers To Achieve Their Highest Potential available at Richard Andrew King Books or click on any of the book images below.
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